How Someone Talks About Their Exes Tells You a Lot About Them

If every single ex was "crazy," "toxic," or "the worst" -- pause and notice the pattern. The common denominator in all of someone's failed relationships is that someone. This doesn't mean they're a bad person, but it does suggest a lack of self-reflection. Listen for accountability versus blame. A person who can say I contributed to that not working is showing you they've grown. A person who casts themselves as the eternal victim is showing you something too.