Hoping Someone Will Fundamentally Change After Marriage
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Marriage doesn't transform people. It amplifies who they already are. The charming messiness becomes infuriating disorder; the endearing stubbornness becomes immovable rigidity. Marry the person standing in front of you, not the one you hope they'll become. If something is a dealbreaker now, a ring won't make it disappear -- it will just make it harder to walk away from.
The point
Marriage amplifies who someone already is -- marry the person in front of you, not the version you're hoping for.
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