The HALT Check: Before Reacting, Ask If You're Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired
Before reacting, check if you're Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired — most overreactions trace back to one of these four.
Before reacting, check if you're Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired — most overreactions trace back to one of these four.
Check insurance, pick the right type of professional, remember you can switch if it's not a fit — and you don't need to be in crisis to begin.
Check the basics, change one small thing, say it out loud — and consider that stuck might mean wrong direction.
Don't try to solve anything at night — write it down, set a time to deal with it tomorrow, and use boring audio.
Stop, breathe, brain-dump everything onto paper, then pick one thing and do only that.
Worry loops indefinitely; preparation leads somewhere — learning to tell the difference saves enormous mental energy.
You don't need to wait until things are unbearable to ask for help — readiness comes from starting, not from waiting.