Take Turns Choosing: Tonight You Pick the Movie, Tomorrow I Pick the Restaurant

"What do you want to do?" "I don't know, what do you want to do?" -- this loop wastes more evenings than either of you will admit. The fix is a simple rotation: one person chooses tonight, the other chooses next time. No negotiations, no guilt. The chooser commits fully; the other says yes without commentary. It sounds childish until you realize it eliminates the decision fatigue that drains your actual time together.