The 10-10-10 Rule for Emotional Decisions
Before acting on emotion, ask how you'll feel about it in 10 minutes, 10 months, and 10 years — most urgent feelings only optimize for the first.
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Most decisions are reversible, and treating them as final is what makes them paralyzing. These advices cover deciding faster on small things, slowing down on the few that truly matter, and making peace with the fact that no choice comes with a guarantee.
Before acting on emotion, ask how you'll feel about it in 10 minutes, 10 months, and 10 years — most urgent feelings only optimize for the first.
Worry loops indefinitely; preparation leads somewhere — learning to tell the difference saves enormous mental energy.
If hours of thinking haven't produced a decision or next step, you're rehearsing the problem, not solving it.