Saying 'It's Fine' When It's Not Is a Slow Poison for Any Relationship
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Each swallowed "it's fine" adds a tiny brick to a wall of resentment. Individually, each one seems harmless -- too small to fight about. But over months and years, the wall grows so high that no one can see over it anymore. By the time you finally explode, your partner is blindsided by the accumulated weight of things they never knew bothered you. Say it when it's small. Small honesty prevents big ruptures.
The point
Every swallowed 'it's fine' adds another brick to a resentment wall that eventually becomes too high to see over.
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